You haven't pushed this far to only get this far...
You’re a high-achieving leader, creative, or visionary who refuses to settle for ordinary.
Life is here to be LIVED! Fully, deeply, expansively.
But right now? You’re so busy surviving that you’re not actually living.
You’re moving fast, but you’re not present.
You’re achieving, but you’re not experiencing.
You’re pushing forward, but you’re missing the aliveness you’re craving.
You’re achieving, but you’re not experiencing.
You’re pushing forward, but you’re missing the aliveness you’re craving.
And here’s the secret fear you don’t talk about:
“What if slowing down means I lose my edge? What if wholeness makes me ordinary?”
So you keep going. Keep proving. Keep white-knuckling your way through.
Because at least survival mode gives you something: momentum, drive, purpose.
But what if everything you believe about your edge is wrong?
What if the version of you that’s rested, whole, and aligned is actually MORE powerful than the version running on fumes?
What if there’s MORE life, MORE creativity, MORE impact on the other side of survival mode?
The Recalibration Private Mentorship is where you discover the answer.
The Truth About High-Achiever Burnout
For years, you believed your “always on” identity was non-negotiable.
That being the hardest worker in the room, the most available, the one who never stops, that’s what gave you your edge.
And you were terrified that if you let that identity go, you’d become lazy. Ordinary. Someone who settled.
But here’s what I discovered after 20+ years of working with visionaries, healers, and changemakers:
Survival mode doesn’t give you the edge. It dulls it.
Because when you’re running on depletion:
✨You’re not present for the moments you’re creating
✨You’re not savouring the experiences you’re having
✨You’re not feeling the aliveness you’re chasing
You’re just… getting through it faster.
The real edge, the one you’re actually craving, comes from wholeness.
What Changes When You Recalibrate...
When you stop operating from survival and start living from wholeness, everything intensifies:
✨ More presence- You can finally feel your life instead of racing through it
✨ More aliveness- Not frantic energy, but deep, embodied vitality
✨ More creativity- Ideas flow instead of being forced
✨ More clarity- On what you actually want, not what you think you should want
✨ More capacity- For the experiences, relationships, and work that truly matter
✨ More impact- Because you’re leading from purpose, not proving
✨ More aliveness- Not frantic energy, but deep, embodied vitality
✨ More creativity- Ideas flow instead of being forced
✨ More clarity- On what you actually want, not what you think you should want
✨ More capacity- For the experiences, relationships, and work that truly matter
✨ More impact- Because you’re leading from purpose, not proving
You don’t lose your drive. You refine it.
You don’t settle. You expand.
You don’t become ordinary.
You don’t settle. You expand.
You don’t become ordinary.
You become MORE of who you’re meant to be.
This mentorship is for you if:
✓ You’re a high-achieving leader, creative, healer, or visionary navigating burnout or an identity shift
✓ You’ve achieved external success but feel disconnected from the aliveness you thought it would bring
✓ You’re ready to stop surviving and start LIVING, fully, deeply, expansively
✓ You refuse to settle for ordinary and you’re ready to discover that wholeness is the key to the edge you’re seeking
✓ You’re committed to doing the deep work, and you want to be fully supported in the joy and expansion that comes with it
✓ You’re ready for 12 months of transformation, integration, and embodiment (not because it’s “hard” but because true change takes time to root)
This Is NOT For You If:
✗ You’re looking for quick fixes or a 6-week transformation program
✗ You’re not ready to examine the survival patterns keeping you stuck
✗ You want someone to tell you what to do rather than guide you back to your own truth
✗ You’re in victim mode and not ready to take radical responsibility for your evolution
✗ You’re not ready to commit to 12 months of being fully supported in your transformation
The Recalibration Method™
This isn’t traditional coaching. This is deep, embodied transformation.
The Recalibration Method™ is my proprietary framework that blends:
🔥 20+ years of therapeutic expertise (NSPCC, Relate, Dartmoor Prison, award-winning practice)
🔥 Ancient somatic & shamanic practices (breathwork, ritual, ceremony, embodiment)
🔥 Modern neuroscience (informed by Dr. Joe Dispenza, HeartMath Institute)
🔥 The WholeHearted Technique™ (my 8-stage framework for transformation)
We work at the level of your nervous system, subconscious patterns, and embodied identity, not just your mindset.
Because sustainable transformation doesn’t come from thinking differently.
It comes from rewiring the survival patterns that keep you stuck.
THE RECALIBRATION: 12-Month Private Mentorship
For the visionary ready to reclaim their edge, and discover there’s more life on the other side of survival.
This is a 12-month mentorship journey for high-achievers who refuse to settle.
Not because the work takes 12 months to “complete.”
But because true transformation, the kind that rewires your nervous system, shifts your identity, and allows you to be fully present for your life, cannot be rushed.
This is time for you to be fully supported as you:
✨Break the survival patterns keeping you stuck
✨Reclaim your wholeness without losing your edge
✨Discover what it means to be fully, expansively alive
✨Experience more joy, creativity, presence, and aliveness than you thought possible
This isn’t 12 months of grinding through hard work.
It’s 12 months of being held as you remember how to LIVE.
What’s Included:
💫 12 months of private 1:1 mentorship- Weekly 60-75 minute sessions with natural integration weeks built in (3 weeks on, 1 week off) so you can embody the shifts, not just understand them
💫 The complete Recalibration Method™- My proprietary framework blending 20+ years of therapeutic expertise, ancient somatic practices, modern neuroscience, and the 8-stage WholeHearted Technique
💫 Bespoke Identity & Purpose Mapping- Your personalised roadmap for transformation, updated as you evolve
💫 Custom subconscious reprogramming tools- Guided audio journeys, meditations, and activations tailored specifically to your unique journey
💫 Nervous system regulation & embodiment practices- Somatic tools, breathwork, grounding techniques, ritual, ceremony, and movement practices
💫 Guided support between sessions- with tools to resource yourself first
💫 Access to the private WholeHearted Living Online Sanctuary- Curated rituals, embodiment practices, meditations, and advanced expansion tools
💫 Personalised resources throughout your journey- Bespoke workbooks, journal prompts, reflection tools, and practices created specifically for you
💫 Natural transformation touchpoints- We honour the rhythm of your journey with milestone celebrations at 3, 6, and 9 months to acknowledge your evolution
💫 Optional transformational experience- A bespoke in-person immersion in Lake Como, Italy, or a virtual ceremony to anchor your emergence (can be woven in at any point in your journey)
💫 Alumni Mastermind access (upon completion)- Ongoing community and support as you continue to live from wholeness
What Makes 12 Months Different
Most programs promise transformation in 6 weeks, 90 days, or 6 months.
But here’s the truth: Deep nervous system rewiring and identity transformation cannot be rushed.
Your survival patterns didn’t develop overnight. They were built over years, sometimes decades, as a way to keep you safe.
Unwiring them and building new neural pathways takes time.
But here’s what most people don’t tell you:
Those 12 months aren’t just about “doing the work.” They’re about being fully supported as you:
✨Rediscover play, joy, and aliveness
✨Experience what it feels like to be seen and held
✨Learn to trust your body and intuition again
✨Build a life that feels as good as it looks
✨Savour moments instead of racing past them
12 months gives you permission to:
✨Move at your own rhythm (not someone else’s timeline)
✨Have integration weeks where you rest and embody the shifts
✨Celebrate milestones and acknowledge your evolution
✨Experience setbacks without abandoning yourself
✨Discover that transformation isn’t linear, and that’s okay
This is the container where you finally get to exhale. Where you don’t have to have it all figured out.
Where you can fall apart and be held as you reassemble from truth.
12 months is the gift you give yourself.
Not just to transform, but to be fully supported in your aliveness.
Investment:
€18,888
or 12 monthly payments of €1,625
This investment includes everything listed above:12 months of bespoke, trauma-informed support as you reclaim your wholeness and discover what it means to be fully alive.
“I just wanted to say I am very grateful for the support you provide and that there are people like yourself out there in the world doing the work you do. Having you come into my life has been so impactful, that I most definitely would be a completely different person without it. Thank you so much for everything.”
Ash, Australia
Photographer
“I have to say you have immense talent and sublime ability to attune to me and to really get me.
The way you have so adeptly recalled and picked out the gems and key themes from our sessions together is so heartening and exciting.
To know I have such depth of support available from you feels like a true blessing. The way you hold space is on another level.
It’s so soothing to be within your energy field, you are a truly remarkable medicine woman with grace.”
Ben, U.K.
Regenerative Gardener
“I believe that finding a therapist such as Debbie is rare occurance. She is intuitive, empathetic, compassionate, and present. I feel supported and heard in her presence and she provides a safe space to share openly, free of judgement. Thank you so much for helping me on my journey.”
Stef, Australia
Digital Marketer
From Your Guide…
I Know What It’s Like to Believe Your Edge Comes from Survival
For years, I wore my “always on” identity like armour. I was one of the youngest-ever qualified therapists in the UK. I built an award-winning wellbeing business. I worked with NSPCC, Relate, Dartmoor Prison, RAFA, supporting others through their darkest moments while silently burning out in mine.
I was the one everyone turned to. The capable one. The one who never stopped. And I believed that’s what made me valuable.
I was terrified that if I let that identity go, I’d become ordinary.
That rest meant settling. That slowing down meant losing everything I’d worked for.
So even as burnout ravaged my body, my relationships, my joy, I kept pushing.
Because at least I knew who that version of me was.
Then Everything Changed…
Burnout didn’t ask for permission. It forced me to confront a truth I’d been avoiding:
I wasn’t living my life to the fullest. I was just getting through it faster.
I was moving, but I wasn’t present. I was achieving, but I wasn’t experiencing. I was alive, but I wasn’t LIVING. The transformation came when I finally asked myself:
“What if the version of me that’s rested, whole, and aligned is actually MORE powerful than the version running on fumes?”
So I tested it.
I recalibrated my nervous system. I broke the survival patterns. I reclaimed my wholeness.
And I discovered there’s MORE life on the other side of survival mode.
More presence. More creativity. More aliveness. More impact.
Not because I was doing more, but because I was finally HERE for it.
This Is the Work I Now Guide Others Through
For over 20 years, I’ve walked alongside people in their darkest and most transformative moments.
I’ve held space for trauma survivors, couples on the edge of separation, prisoners seeking redemption, veterans navigating PTSD, and high-achievers burning out in silence.
I’ve trained in everything from NLP and couples therapy to bodywork, play therapy, and shamanic practices. I’ve studied the research of Dr. Joe Dispenza and the HeartMath Institute. I’ve become a Modern Day Medicine Woman.
But the most important credential I have is this:
I’ve lived the transformation I guide others through.
I know what it’s like to be terrified of slowing down.
I know what it’s like to believe your worth is tied to your productivity.
I know what it’s like to feel trapped between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming.
I know what it’s like to believe your worth is tied to your productivity.
I know what it’s like to feel trapped between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming.
And I know deeply, in my bones, that there’s another way.
Because I know that true transformation, the kind that rewires your nervous system and shifts your identity, cannot be rushed.
And because I know that the high-achievers who need this work the most are the ones most afraid to slow down.
You haven’t pushed this far to only get this far.
You want more life. More aliveness. More presence. More depth. And you’re terrified that reclaiming your wholeness means losing your edge.
I’m here to show you that the opposite is true.
The version of you that operates from wholeness, not survival, is exponentially more powerful than the version white-knuckling her way through life.
This Is a Path You Can Walk Alone, But You Don’t Have To
I can’t take the fire away.
But I will walk through it with you.
And I will talk to you from the other side of it, where there’s more life, more joy, more creativity, more impact than you ever imagined possible.
If your soul is whispering (or screaming) for more, I’m here.
This is your invitation to reclaim your wholeness, your edge, your aliveness.
To discover that you didn’t come this far to just keep surviving.
You came here to LIVE.
With love,
Debs Thorpe
Debs Thorpe
Founder, WholeHearted Living Institute
Award-Winning Therapist, Coach & Modern Day Medicine Woman
20+ Years Supporting Visionaries, Healers & Changemakers
Award-Winning Therapist, Coach & Modern Day Medicine Woman
20+ Years Supporting Visionaries, Healers & Changemakers
